Initiating men online since 2014

It’s hard to tell.

In our experience, a lot of men are more capable of facing challenges than they think they are.

Part of the magic of going on a deeply challenging journey like this one is that you get to know that you’re strong enough to do so. That in and of itself is likely to create a feeling of empowerment for you.

But you may not be that committed. You may prefer comfort over truth, TV shows and potato crisps over integrity, beer and porn over cultivating presence. You may be a creature of habit. You may prefer blaming others over claiming responsibility yourself.

If you do, then this training will likely be too challenging for you. This training will peel off your protective layers and expose all of your broken life strategies. Trust us, it will.

And so if you are not yet ready to see the truth of who you are, then we recommend you postpone your journey with us until you are. Until the pain of the current is greater than the fear of change.

It’s ok – take your time. We’ll be here.

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But over the course of the journey, you will receive much attention on the group coaching calls. You will likely experience this as more vulnerable than one-on-one coaching, but also more transformative.

You will however have access to coaching at discounted rates over the course of the journey.

Yes, they are.

Most – but not all of our alumni are heterosexual white men, but this is not by design.

You see, we pride ourselves in having a training that is alive and adaptive.

What that means is that every round of our training arises uniquely in response to the men who have come to participate.

In other words, whether you are black and gay or white and heterosexual, we will look beyond the surface to get to know who you truly are (which will always include, but not be limited to, your ethnicity and sexual orientation).

We are committed to ensuring that every man is honored for who he is. Black and gay men are no exception.

Tony Fonderson, a man of Cameroonian descent, says “I experienced no racial issues whatsoever. Black men need not be afraid of joining Reclaim your Inner Throne.”

The gay men who have been on our training will also confirm that no discrimination is present. Daniel Figueroa on our team is a gay man who would be happy to speak to you if you so desire.

Probably not.

There’s always a risk when a man goes on a deep journey of change that the outer circumstances of his life will change.

Whatever shifts you choose to make after Reclaim your Inner Throne will however be from a much deeper place inside of you, and you needn’t be afraid that your life is going to fall apart (unless you want it to).

We do not believe that deep change is as simple as changing jobs or relationships. Such changes may happen, but generally only if the life you currently live is dramatically out of alignment with who you are.

It may comfort you to know that past participants have healed their relationships and found more joy at work

Frankly we cannot answer that question, only you can.

Though the fact that you are looking for the answer could be the first step of your journey.

Most of the men we talk to are unwilling to pay the price it takes to create the change they need. The price that stops them is not a price of money, but the price of losing touch with who they are.

They are afraid.

If you have tried different trainings, men’s groups, therapy and you continue to behave in a dishonest way that violates your core values and dignity, you have to dig deeper. You have to let go of your attachments to your fear and limitations and take a leap of faith.

Here are some questions for you:

• Do you have the guts to surrender into the unknown and let go of your fake identity bullshit?
• Have you suffered enough now?
• Do you want to become a mature man who is dedicated to a life of service?

If you can answer yes to at least two of these questions, we believe this training is for you.

Welcome.

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Every teaching call is on Mondays at 7pm CET (CEST in summer), 1pm EST.

Coaching calls alternate between the same time of day on Thursdays and Sundays.

Set aside two hours for each call.

Check the course calendar for more information.

We now have two different initiation tracks to make it easier for you to find a training that works for you timewise.

If neither of these works, we cannot help you. We’re sorry.

Yes, it is.

Though many men that we speak with don’t believe us.

Are you one of those men?

Reclaim your Inner Throne is at the cutting edge of using Internet technology to create deep transformation.

With Zoom, the video conferencing technology that we use, we get to look each other in the eye.

But we don’t have physical contact. And so you won’t be able to wrestle or hug your Brothers. If that is absolutely essential to you, then this may not be the right training for you.

Yet, there is a magic possible online that you are likely not aware of, and that is the magic of realtime integration of the work.

What do we mean?

Well, there’s something about Reclaim your Inner Throne that makes the experience permeate all areas of your life with the feeling of ritual space. We’re proud of that.

When you do a weekend workshop, or even a longer on site training, you go away to some retreat location, have a wonderful experience, and then return home to try and integrate what you experienced. You will likely experience the infamous rubber band effect; the experience of your habits and inner world snapping right back to where they were prior to your training.

With Reclaim your Inner Throne, that is no longer as big of an issue, as the training contains the process of ongoing integration. Since you won’t experience the strong separation between a retreat location and your home when you do RYIT, some magic that you probably haven’t experienced before starts taking place.

On many levels, we believe that this makes Reclaim your Inner Throne more powerful than residential trainings.

If you don’t believe it, check out our testimonials or a celebration call. They speak for themselves.